One in three teens has reported direct or indirect contact with teen dating violence.
As with other forms of violence, exposure to dating violence as a teen can lead to problems well into adulthood.
According to the CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violencestudy, about 1 in 5 women and nearly 1 in 7 men who ever experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner, first experienced some form of partner violence between the ages of 11 and 17.
Signs a teen is involved in an abusive relationship may include:
- Changes in patterns of relationships: Time spent with friends declines or the teen seems anxious about making plans that don’t include their partner.
- Mood changes/depression: Teens in violent relationships may cry more or want to be alone.
- Making excuses or denying abusive actions, verbal insults, or emotional blackmail (for example, “He was just kidding”).
- Isolation from family members.
Everyone can play a part in preventing teen dating violence and helping victims heal. Research has shown that children and teens who have a trusted, caring adult in their lives may be better equipped to cope when faced with violence.
Numerous organizations and curriculums have targeted the issue and aim to promote healthy relationships. A Department of Justice study found that school-level interventions in 30 New York City middle schools reduced the instances of teen dating violence by 50 percent.
So let’s all get involved. No idea where to start? Here’s a list of resources for parents and programs.
Stick with us throughout the month as we explore the prevalence of teen dating violence, as well as ways to help and heal.
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